Well, today after school I was hanging out with my boyfriend, his friend and my two best friends. We were all just talking. Blah blah blah. Then my boyfriend (Stephen) calls over his friend Zach. Him and Zach were just play fighting. But then it turned into an actual fight. Zach was chasing Stephen saying how he hated him and was gonna kill him. Then he punched Stephen. I walked right up to Zach and told him to grow up and leave Stephen alone. SMACK! He smacked me in the face. I went down on the ground in a flash and I just layed there for a while, about to cry.
Zach starts to run home, aware of what he just did (Hit a girl! Oh No!) but my two best friends, Robyn and Coralie, wouldn't let him. He started to kick them, and for self defence they kicked him back. Knowing my friends were getting hurt, I sucked it up and ran to help them. I told him that he had no right at all to smack me, as I didnt hurt him. He said, "Oh whatever, it wasn't even that hard, see?" SMACK! He smacked me again. Same cheek. I fell to the ground again and I started to cry. Stephen say all of this and jumped on Zach's back and took him down and choked him a little. Then when Stephen went into the school to get his friend, and Zach went after him. I called Stephen's house (his mom always told me to call her house if anything ever happened to Stephen) and she sounded so worried. she was there in five minutes with his step-dad. I asked for some ice and Stephen was taken to the principal's office, and so was Zach. I called my parents and told them I'd be a bit late.
I just took a seat in the office, then the stupid office lady told me to go home. I refused and told her i was a part of the fight and I needed to talk to the principal. "GO HOME!" She yelled at me. I listened. But I didnt go home, I waited outside of the school. Finally Stephen, his mom and his step-dad came outside and his mom was thanking me for calling her. At this point I was crying my eyes out. She told me to lay charges on Zach because he smacked me twice. I walked halfway home with them and then Coralie walked me the rest of the way (Robyn already went home.)
The thing is, I'm not allowed to hang out with boys (I do anyway) and if my dad finds out, he'll freak! So I'm gonna tell my mom later what happened. I used to be so good in school and now I get into a fight. She won't be happy. And since boys were involved it'll be even worse. So what do I tell her? Sorry for the long post by the way. Thanks if you read it all!
Hmm... maybe you should just listen to your parents for a while. See what they think about dating, and what age is appropriate to do so.
Also, although you're scared to get in trouble, just don't lie about what happened and take the consequences. Let them trust you more afterwards... I don't really know what to say. :(
Anyways, hope ur ok.
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Thanks! =) I really appreciate it. Once my dad leaves for work I'll ask my mom if I can talk to her alone. I hope she will understand though. The last thing I need is to be yelled at.
Okay, about 20 minutes ago, Stephen's mom called my mom. She told her what happened and my mom isn't mad at me. I was going to tell her tonight, but I guess I can't now xD I'm going to the pricipal's office tomorrow to complain about how the office lady treated me, and to talk about the fight a bit more. Thanks to everyone for helping me. =DD
