That's true, it's different for everyone. My Dad travels for about 1/3 of the year, so if my parents would get divorced, it would just be like a long business trip. Me and him aren't that close, but other people are.
I'm sooo sorry, Hammy. I wish I could do something for you. :( I suppose I can't do much more than just wish you the best of luck with whatever happens, and tell you I'm here if you ever need to talk. I'm so sorry.